Unconditional Love as the term suggests refers to “Selfless” love. Love with no limits and no conditions.
In unconditional love, you don’t want another person to change, whereas you will accept 100% as they are. With unconditional love, you won’t blame someone else for how you feel, whereas you will take full control of all your feelings and emotions. Holding strong intensity to love someone whatsoever the conditions is.
The term “Love” is misunderstood many times. People usually think they will feel love/loved with their better half/partner or boyfriends/girlfriends but that’s total nonsense. Love can be felt in any relationship, Be it with your parents, your siblings, with your close friends, or even with your pet. Love is a feeling of complete “Bliss”. Feeling loved is not dependent on others or outside conditions it’s all within you. You have to love yourself and focus on the good things.
Unconditional Love makes you Emotionally strong
We usually feel if someone can meet my definition of love then they love us otherwise not. Whereas in reality feeling of love is different for different individuals. Expression of love differs from person to person. If you learn to love unconditionally you learn to be happy despite varying conditions. Which gives you full power to control your feelings and thoughts, that’s when you realize the strength of unconditional love.
I love the feeling of loving you and what you feel about it is irrelevant. I love the feeling of loving you.ABRAHAM HICKS
Unconditional Love gives you the power to be “BE WHO YOU ARE”
If your love is not dependent on another person’s behavior, situation, and looks it will be unconditional and you will always be happy in that. You would never have to be pretentious to impress someone. You will be strong enough to express your thoughts and emotions without the fear of being Judged. You will have strong control over your feelings and can take mature decisions in a relationship. You’ll feel the boss of your own life and no one in this world will have the power to hurt you emotionally & mentally.
Unconditional Love is Total Acceptance for someone
Acceptance is the way we can build a strong understanding relation. Questioning someone’s beliefs, actions and behavior will never bring out a healthy loving relationship. Everyone wants to be heard. Give freedom of expression in your relations so your family, friends, or husband can walk up to you and talk about the most insane feelings/thoughts without any fear.
Be in love regardless of condition, be who you are, and don’t stop yourself. Situations can be worst, people might misbehave, hurt, life might not turn out the way you wanted it, Just relax and focus on solutions rather than problems.
Unconditional love doesn’t mean to love someone more than yourself, it never asks you to live a life of restrictions or boundaries. Living to other’s expectations or tolerate abuse. Take your stand maintain your dignity and respect yourself.
If you know how to respect and love yourself you will have lots and lots of love to give. Always remember there is only ONE thing you can control in this world, THAT’S your THOUGHTS and FEELINGS. Never give this remote control to someone else. Never make your feelings dependent on someone else. As soon as the other person will change … you going to be in mess.!
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